A social activist has gone on Facebook to share her greatest fear in a relationship and marriage. Oma Jim wrote: “One of my greatest fear in relationship and marriage is to be with an unintelligent insecure man with low self-esteem.” She added: “Unfortunately 8 out of 10 Nigerian 30+ men are like this…” She went on to detail how such men can be a source of embarrassment to the women they’re with. “Imagine being with someone who is not bright and they will be claiming ‘I’m the man, don’t correct me, I know what I’m doing… you’re trying to control me…’ “Imagine your man in public arguing like an illiterate because he doesn’t read, his head is empty… “Imagine being with a man that doesn’t think properly, “Imagine your man coming on Facebook and having beer parlour conversations like washing machine is for lazy women…” Read her entire post below. The post 8 out of 10 Nigerian men above 30 are unintelligent, insecure, with low self-esteem social activist says as she lists her greatest fear appeared first on dotifi.com start an online business for free and earn .